Quick update

HEY YALL......

Hope everyone is doing well. To be honest I have been lazy. I'm suppose to be studying for the lsat, losing weight/eating healthy, & starting a nonprofit BUT I have not been motivated. I was thinking maybe I don't want to walk in my assignment, I just want to work a 9-5 and come home and go to sleep. Who am I kidding this 9-5 is not for me. I want to travel and be freeeee. Okay so starting today June 4, 2015 I'm back at it. I'm not holding myself back and neither should you. Time to walk in our purpose. Are you ready?! I am. Let's get to it.  

ON ANOTHER NOTE.....

Do you ever feel uncomfortable around certain people and doing certain things???

Let me tell you all about it. So last month I went to Miami with 5 of my "friends" (I really need to start meeting new people that are on my level. That is one reason why I'm still hanging on to the friends I have now, But God put on my heart I need to let them go. It's hard yall). Anyway Miami is where women are half naked and men are lusting after every and anything that walks. The first day I put on something conservative, they looked at me like I was crazy. They was calling me grandma. So guess what I did? I changed my outfit to something tight showing off my figure and assets. Guys was hitting on me and pulling me to dance when I was dressed like that but when I had on something less revealing they just ignored me. I'm glad they didn't want to talk to me. I want a guy to look at my mind instead of the revealing clothes I wear. While wearing my two piece swimming suit i felt uncomfortable. I love my body, but I dont want to go around showing every man my body!!!

Can I BE HONEST YALL???

 The Devil tempted me during this trip. (As some of you know I have not had sex in over two years or any male attention) This guy was my type, talking the right things. I was almost close to having sex with him (no I did not take off my clothes or anything, but I was almost there) but something (Devil) was telling me to take it further. I had to stop. I don't think I really enjoyed this trip. If I went to Miami with my parents (Yes I love traveling with my parents. They are fun and we have a good time) it would have been different and I would have enjoyed myself.

Do I think I will go on another trip with them? Probably not. Our friendship got lost when I found myself. It's not like I'm better than anyone cause I'm not. It's that I carry myself different and going on vacation wearing little to none clothing is not me. I hate to be judged when I'm with them. It's like I have to dress a certain way.

XOXOXO

VIRTUOUS GODLY WOMAN

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No experience, just BLESSINGS

Have you every thought about how good God is????? I was thinking about what I was doing last year and how my life is different now. 

Around this time last year, was unemployed. I had a bachelor degree with no job, which I graduated 2013, ha. Worrying about how I'm going to pay my loans, my car note, and what my response would be when people ask me where I work at or what I'm doing with your life.

Won't He Do It???

I have a full time job now. Well I started in July 2014. I remember the director saying these words to me, 

"We took a chance on you. You had no previous experience like the other individuals that started with you. You actually doing better than them." 

He Will Make You Qualified.....

Do you want to know that I call that?? FAITH & GOD. Every time I look back I'm like wow, Thank you God. God will make it so you don't need the experience all you need is him. He will open those doors that no one can close. Yall don't understand I LOVE MY GOD. He will turn everything around for HIS GOOD. 

If your going through something. Remember my story. Keep PRAYING, your prayers will get answered when God is ready. He has a plan for me and you. Think about a year from now, you won't be where your at now. 

Matthew 21:22: AND WHATEVER YOU ASK IN PRAYER, YOU WILL RECEIVE, IF YOU HAVE FAITH. 

Put it on a stick note and look at it every morning it will change your life. Love you. I will pray for you, pray for me as well. I'm sending positive thoughts and great ideas your way. If God put something on your heart DO IT!

X0X0

Virtuous Godly Woman

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Questions to ask

Look at this video. I love it. Ask this question before you date a guy.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y7NXupl_IjY


Love you and God loves you as well
Tell me how it works out when you ask.
Im not dating anyone at the moment, but I will let yall know once I start dating

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BACK THEN--->NOW

Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!!!

So yesterday I was talking to my friend on the phone and she reminded me of my age..  I will be 24 in  a couple of months!!!!!!

Once I accepted the fact that I am old, I then compared my mindset from today and a couple of years ago. Here is a list of 5 things I have change:

1. BACK THEN I use to be materialistic. I use to want all the latest things and had to have everything that was "in". NOW I do not think about those things. Example new iPhone coming out and guess what I DONT CARE. As long as my current iPhone is working correctly, I am not worried about it
2. BACK THEN I use to think if I had a male in my life I would be complete. I would do anything for male attention. NOW As long as I have GOD I am complete. Who is better than GOD? I love God so much. He knows me from my in and out. 
3. BACK THEN I use to wear tight and short clothes. Wanted everyone to look at me because of what I had on. NOW I would not even wear anything like that showing my body. I love fashion but there is a difference between fashion and looking crazy lo.
4. BACK THEN I use to have meaningless ships(relationships, friendships) NOW I do not entertain people and I do not let anyone entertain me!
5. BACK THEN I use to not carry myself as a queen. NOW YES I have expectations! I AM A QUEEN. NO I will not settle. 

NOW ITS YOUR TURN. DO YOU BACK THEN AND NOW. I WOULD LIKE TO SEE 

I LOVE YOU AND ALSO GOD LOVES YOU! 

REMEMBER TO PUT GOD FIRST

EMAIL ME

PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING!! WORRY ABOUT NOTHING!!

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Randommmmmmm

Talking on the phone, doing on dates, giving & receiving gifts.... The list goes on. You know what I want to talk about RELATIONSHIPS. Oh I'm not in a relationship, I dream about being in one. Ughhhhh I want the man of my dreams to find me. The one God has for me. Hmmmm I wonder what he is doing right now... Probably writing a blog. Hahahaha just joking.

But on a serious note. I always "see" people in relationships, being happy. Than I have to remind myself I do not know what is going on in their life. A picture does not shows the heartbreak or the struggle. It just shows the couple together smiling. Being in the moment. An example is seeing a millionaire going on vacation all the time. You want that person life, but you do not know the struggle that happen before.

So lets be happy with the life we have. If your single (like me) enjoy your single life. 

Kisses xoxoxoxoxoxo

Ohhhhh. I forgot to tell yall. I'm going away for a while again. NO Facebook, Instagram, Social media period. Time to focus on two things GOD & MYSELF. You can always email me.

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RANDOM POST!

Do any of you have DADDY issues? Maybe your father was not around, you was not close to him, he hurt you, and so on..... Well I want to talk about DADDY. The other part of your DNA besides your mother. Well I want to talk about him my VGW.

You know how some people says, your past affects your future? Well that is true. Your past or future relationship with your father will affect your relationship with men. Some women do not even know there father, so they look for other man to be the "daddy figure" (some not all)

CAN I BE HONEST??

I love being honest with yall. I grew up in a nice neighborhood, parents still together, and they both had good jobs. Looking at my family you would have thought we had it all together. GIRL PLEASE. We had problems, but we did not let the outside see them. Around the age of 10, I knew I did not want to marry a guy like my father (yes I said it! I know a father is suppose to be every girls first love, but with me thats not the case). Seeing my father cheat on my mother, I did not want anything to do with him. And seeing her take him back like its okay. It was annoying. I had no one to talk to, plus I did not want everyone in my business. I wanted everyone to continue to think my life was "perfect". Plus I had to be strong for my mother. 

How can I trust a man when I do not even trust my father?

My BC (Before Christ) days I use to jump from guy to guy. I always wanted to feel love. If they did not love my than I would go to the next guy. I was in a toxic relationship for 4 years. He "loved" me. I acted like my mom as well. Hollered at him than took him back hours later. Looking back at that relationship I do not know why I was even with him.

PRAYING

I pray to GOD I forgive my dad, but as for right I can look at him. How could he hurt my mom like that? I pray that I find a man that loves GOD first then ME. I need to forgive him

LOVE YALL. EMAIL MEEEE.

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Gotta tell y'all the truth...

CAN l BE HONEST WITH YALL? 

Being a single 23 year old is HARD, while trying to be the best Godly Woman I can. So this past weekend I went out the the club (I know I know..) I did not drink nor wear anything revealing. I felt so awkward because everyone was drunk and the females was showing off all their body parts. When I was at the club I felt like an outsider. Anyways the friend of my family member I went out with like me (I haven't had a guy that liked me in a while, so I was excited). When we was at the club he was drinking and looking at those women with lust. He isn't a Godly Man. I invited him to church with me, but he had to work the Sunday. We were texting yesterday, he is a nice guy from what I can tell, BUT he did not say anything to me about GOD and being a Christian. Hmm is it because I did not bring it up. I feel like the first topic we should have talked about was GOD. Rightt?

QUESTIONS …...

Does him being a nice guy mean I should give him a chance?

Do I help him become closer to God while working on myself? 

What if he is just getting to know God because of me and not taking it serious?

What they saying???

A couple family members says, "your going to be single for the rest of your life. Just have a little fun"Fun?? I have fun, I just don't want to entertain guys that I don't see myself with in a few years. I do not want to mess up me and my future husband relationship because I'm occupying my time with a random.

Thoughts

I came to the conclusion that I want to be in a relationship. I want someone to go on dates with and talk to. But I need to SLOW down. When it's my time,, ITS MY TIME!! I need to enjoy being single. 

Hope you enjoy the read. Email me. FYI I will not be going out anymore. I love staying at home.

The Devil thats getting the singles wet, is the same Devil that keeps 
married people dry……
                  ---DR. RA Vernon

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