CAN l BE HONEST WITH YALL?
Being a single 23 year old is HARD, while trying to be the best Godly Woman I can. So this past weekend I went out the the club (I know I know..) I did not drink nor wear anything revealing. I felt so awkward because everyone was drunk and the females was showing off all their body parts. When I was at the club I felt like an outsider. Anyways the friend of my family member I went out with like me (I haven't had a guy that liked me in a while, so I was excited). When we was at the club he was drinking and looking at those women with lust. He isn't a Godly Man. I invited him to church with me, but he had to work the Sunday. We were texting yesterday, he is a nice guy from what I can tell, BUT he did not say anything to me about GOD and being a Christian. Hmm is it because I did not bring it up. I feel like the first topic we should have talked about was GOD. Rightt?QUESTIONS …...
Does him being a nice guy mean I should give him a chance?Do I help him become closer to God while working on myself?
What if he is just getting to know God because of me and not taking it serious?
What they saying???
A couple family members says, "your going to be single for the rest of your life. Just have a little fun"Fun?? I have fun, I just don't want to entertain guys that I don't see myself with in a few years. I do not want to mess up me and my future husband relationship because I'm occupying my time with a random.Thoughts
I came to the conclusion that I want to be in a relationship. I want someone to go on dates with and talk to. But I need to SLOW down. When it's my time,, ITS MY TIME!! I need to enjoy being single.
Hope you enjoy the read. Email me. FYI I will not be going out anymore. I love staying at home.
The Devil thats getting the singles wet, is the same Devil that keeps
married people dry……
---DR. RA Vernon
